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''Self-love is not selfish; you cannot truly love another person until you know how to love yourself.'' Wisely said indeed, by a romantic who wasn’t a cliched hopeless one like the famous characters in well-known love stories with a tragic climax.

We might fantasise a tragic love story on the silver screen, but dating in real life should be anything but a comedy. Here are four reasons why the key to a happy love life is self-love.

Empty Glass Theory

Imagine a pair of glasses in a set; that is the couple. And water in the glass is love. If one glass is empty, it will naturally have no water to pour in the other glass; a person has to love oneself to have enough love in the heart to offer it to the partner.

Strong Boundaries Around Dating And Love

Only a person with self-love is confident enough to be assertive with their partner. Self-love adds a selfish purpose to life. This, in turn, leads to empowered romantic choices and saves the heartaches of dating the wrong people who aren’t good for you. Maybe by setting boundaries, you’ll find the perfect match for you by narrowing the candidates.

Riddance From Seeking Approval

If you love yourself, you will only need your approval and not your partner’s or crush’s. This is the most liberating feeling in the world. Moreover, it creates room to be original and less defensive. This attitude helps you live a life more aligned with your own values and not only the values of your partner.

Being More Attractive

In general people with ample self-love, self-respect and self-esteem, exude a plethora of confidence, assertiveness and self-assurance. These traits are deemed the sexiest of all in available singles. Fortunately, these qualities are in everyone’s control and are not at the mercy of the unfair genetic code. Consequently, anyone can be desirable. Anyone can have an amazing and a literally mind-blowing sex life. There are no excuses for pleasure-deprived dating.

''Love yourself first, and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.'' – Lucille Ball

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